I’m sitting in my parents’ kitchen in Quebec right now, and my mom just pulled out her pen-and-paper planner. Yes, pen and paper. She’s 60 years old and has zero interest in Google Calendar or fancy apps.
Five years ago she was 184 pounds. Today she’s 130. Same weight she was as a teenager.
She tried everything before this. Atkins. Weight Watchers. That weird soup and cracker diet. You know the drill. She’d lose some weight, feel good for a minute, then gain it all back plus some.
The last time she got anywhere close before our program? Maybe 160 pounds. And she never stayed there.
So when I told her I wanted to record a podcast about what actually worked for her transformation, she agreed. No filter, no marketing spin. Just the real stuff that made the difference between another failed diet and a permanent change.
If you’ve been stuck in the yo-yo cycle, this one’s for you.
Why Everything Else Failed Her (And Probably You Too)
Look, my mom tried. Hard. For years.
But every diet had the same problem: she was trying to sprint a marathon.
90-day challenges. Meal replacements. Eating 1,200 calories and wondering why she was exhausted all the time. Training way more than she needed to. Cutting out entire food groups.
And when the “program” was over? She had no clue how to actually live in her new body. Because she never learned anything. She just white-knuckled her way through it.
Her transformation took nine months to lose 50 pounds. Not three weeks. Not 90 days. Nine whole months.
That’s the thing no one wants to hear. It takes time. But that’s exactly why it stuck.
Anyway, here’s what she told me worked.
1. Plan Your Week (She Uses Pen and Paper, You Can Use Whatever)
My mom pulls out this little planner every Sunday and maps out her week.
Training days: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. Non-negotiable.
Cooking days: Usually the days she’s not training, she’ll use that time to prep food instead.
“I just write it down,” she said. “My meals, my activities, my training. Everything.”
I use Google Calendar because I’m plugged into my phone 24/7, but she doesn’t care about that. Paper works for her.
The point isn’t the tool. It’s that she actually blocks off the time. Your workout isn’t happening if you just hope motivation shows up. You schedule it like a doctor’s appointment.
And if life happens, if there’s a family thing or my dad has an event, she adjusts. She doesn’t skip. She moves it.
That’s the difference.
2. Grocery Shopping Without Losing Your Mind
Here’s her system: look at what meals she wants to make, check what’s already in the cupboards, make a list of what’s missing.
Then she checks the grocery store flyers for deals. Buys in bulk when it makes sense.
“I want my meals to be good and tasty, but I don’t want them to cost too much.”
She’s not driving to three different stores for exotic ingredients. She’s not spending $80 on one meal. Rice, beans, lentils, potatoes, vegetables, some tofu or tempeh. That’s it.
People overcomplicate this. They think eating healthy means making gourmet meals every night. The clients who succeed eat the same breakfast all week and rotate through like 5-7 dinners they actually enjoy.
That’s sustainable. Trying to be a Michelin star chef seven days a week is not.
3. Cut Your Vegetables in Advance (Or You’ll Eat the Cookies)
My mom keeps cut vegetables in the fridge. Carrots, celery, cauliflower, broccoli. Ready to grab.
My dad has cookies in the cupboard. Crackers. Popcorn. All his stuff.
And when she’s hungry? She goes for the vegetables.
I asked her how she resists the cookies when they’re right there.
“You think about your goals. Do you really want to lose weight? Do you want to be healthy and full of energy? What’s going to give you that, the vegetables or the cookies?”
That’s it. No magic willpower. Just asking herself what she actually wants.
But here’s the thing: if those vegetables weren’t already cut and ready, she’d probably grab the convenient thing. We all would.
Make it easy to do the right thing.
4. Try New Vegetables (She Still Hasn’t Tried Everything)
My mom’s been vegan for years and she said there are still vegetables she hasn’t tried yet.
She follows people on Instagram. Carly from Plant You. Sam from It Doesn’t Taste Like Chicken. Toni from Plant-Based on a Budget. That British lady, Broccoli Mom. And for French speakers in Quebec, Philippe Lardon.
When she sees a recipe she likes, she saves it to her email. Now she has this whole bank of recipes to pull from.
One rule though: not too many ingredients. If a recipe has 15 steps and a bunch of spices she’ll never use again, she skips it.
“When there’s too many ingredients, it’s too much.”
Simple. Tasty. That’s the standard.
Oh, and she hates Swiss chard and olives. Always has. Tried them in the program, still hates them. You don’t have to like every vegetable. Just find enough that you do like.
5. Meal Prep on the Days You Don’t Train
She preps twice a week. Usually Sunday and Wednesday. That way she’s never more than three days away from fresh food.
On training days, she comes home, heats up what’s already made, eats. Done.
How long does it take her? About an hour to prep three days of food.
People think meal prep is this massive time suck. But compare that to ordering food, waiting for delivery, or driving to pick something up. Meal prep is actually faster. It just requires thinking ahead.
And when you’re tired after a workout, you’re not making good decisions. That’s when you order pizza. But if food’s already there? You just eat it.
6. Your Partner Doesn’t Have to Do It With You (But They Can’t Sabotage You)
My dad’s never been vegan. Never done the program. Still eats meat, though way less than before.
But he supported my mom. He’d help cut vegetables. During her tough workouts, he’d be there handing her water, grabbing a towel. “You’re going to survive,” he’d tell her after those brutal thousand-rep workouts.
She didn’t need him to go vegan. She just needed him not to make it harder.
And watching her transform? That influenced him. He saw her energy improve. Her confidence. Her strength. And slowly he started eating more plant-based meals. Not because anyone forced him. Because he saw the results.
A lot of clients worry their partner won’t be supportive. Sometimes that’s true. But more often, when you start getting healthier and stronger, they come around. They might even join you eventually.
7. Get the Right Kitchen Tools (She Loves Her Tofu Press)
I bought my mom a tofu press for Christmas a couple years ago and she was so excited.
“I press tofu and it hurts my elbows,” she told me. Years of volleyball and basketball catching up with her.
She also loves:
Her spiralizer (cuts vegetables into different shapes)
Stainless steel measuring cups and spoons (replaced all her plastic ones)
Her Vitamix (makes smoothies, soups, and this smoked cheddar cheese that’s incredible)
These aren’t luxury items. They’re tools that make eating healthy easier and more enjoyable.
You don’t need everything at once. But a decent blender, some good measuring tools, maybe a few gadgets that make your life easier? Worth it.
If you were starting a business you’d invest in the right equipment. Why not do the same for your health?
8. Chew Your Food (Seriously)
This came from Coach Sarah in our program and my mom still does it.
“Chew your food. Eat slowly. Appreciate your meal.”
My dad has this seven-layer nacho dip he makes. If you’re just sitting there watching TV, scrolling your phone, you’ll eat half of it before you realize you’re stuffed.
But if you slow down, chew your food (aim for 30 times but honestly just slow down), your body catches up. Your gut sends the signal to your brain that you’re full.
Especially with whole food plant-based eating. There’s so much fiber, so many nutrients. Those receptors in your gut need time to register what you’re eating.
Eat fast? You’ll overeat. Eat slow? Your body tells you when you’ve had enough.
9. Follow Recipe Creators (So You Don’t Get Bored)
Boredom kills diets.
You eat the same five meals on repeat and eventually you just can’t anymore.
My mom follows a few creators, saves recipes she likes, and now she has variety. She’s not locked into the same rotation forever.
She looks for simple recipes. Not too many steps. Not too complicated.
Then when she wants to try something new, she’s got options. That’s how you stay interested in your food instead of dreading it.
10. Stop Trying to Lose It Fast
My mom said this is the biggest one.
“When you want to lose weight, you usually want to lose it quick. And it doesn’t last. So just change your mindset to long-term. Take a longer time to lose your weight, and it will be done forever.”
She was 184 pounds at 55. Last time she was 130? Teenager. Decades ago.
Every other diet got her to maybe 160. And it never lasted.
With our program? Nine months to lose 50 pounds. Four years later, she’s still 130.
That’s the difference between sprinting and pacing yourself.
If you’re sprinting 50 meters, you push through the pain. Knees hurt? Hip hurts? Whatever, it’s only 50 meters.
But a marathon? You pace yourself. You walk when you need to. You jog when you can. You don’t destroy your body trying to get there fast.
And eventually, you finish.
My mom’s 60 now. She’s turning 60 in a few months actually. She’s about to do another fat loss phase because she just finished a muscle building phase and put on some muscle. She’s stronger now than she was at 40.
That doesn’t happen with crash diets.
Here’s the Part No One Wants to Hear
This is a lifetime thing.
My mom still exercises four times a week. Still meal preps. Still monitors her nutrition (not obsessively, but she’s aware).
She eats out. She has wine. She enjoys her life.
But she’s still making healthy decisions. Because if she went back to eating donuts every day and stopped exercising, she’d gain it all back.
This isn’t a four-month program. This is how you live if you want to stay healthy and strong as you age.
The good news? It’s easier to maintain health than regain it.
She’s not fighting her body anymore. She’s not forcing herself to work out. She actually likes it now. More energy. Better sleep. Stronger.
That’s what sustainable transformation looks like.
Take Action (Even Imperfect Action)
My mom didn’t wait for the perfect moment. She didn’t wait until she had all the answers or felt motivated.
She just started. Planned her week with pen and paper. Cut vegetables even when she didn’t feel like it. Showed up to workouts on tired days.
Small actions compounded into a 50-pound transformation.
So stop waiting for 2026 to feel magical. Stop waiting for the perfect program or the perfect time.
Pick one thing from this list and do it this week. Plan your week. Prep some vegetables. Try a new recipe. Slow down when you eat.
Just one thing.
Because you’re either taking action and learning, or you’re waiting and nothing’s changing.
My mom proved you can transform in your 50s and stay strong in your 60s. But it starts with a decision and then consistent action, even when it’s not perfect.
So what’s it going to be?
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